Post by lifetimejovifan on May 17, 2010 16:13:30 GMT -4
Ok, since I have very few "friends" that I can vent to...I figured i'd come here so I wasn't airing my dirty laundry on Twitter or FB. My jovi sisters are always here.
I'm not sure if I should be hurt, pissed, ready to divorce him. To be quite honest I'm just plain confused...
I've been best friends with my BFF for 25+ years, she's my REAL LIFE jovi sister, we grew up on Jovi and attended our first and second Jovi shows together.
Her mother, sister, aunts, uncles, grandparents, etc. have ALWAYS welcomed me and my children and more recently my husband into the family with open arms.
I got a visit today from my 2nd mom (my BFF's mom) who is almost crying at the information she has to tell me.
We were over at the house a few weeks ago and were swimming etc. Shadow (my daughter) fell down outside and scraped her knee. She was yelling for her daddy and I asked my bff to go find him for me.
She found him in the garage over behind the stuff where her step-father keeps his fishing gear. (Which my husband admits to) She didn't think anything of it, until her step-dad noticed that one of his open faced reels was missing. (2+2=4 right?)
She came over and asked me about it, she *my 2nd mom* and my bff were terrified that I would be angry with them for telling me what they thought had happened.
No one wanted to say anything...just let it go. I'm glad they told me. Here's another part, I took her outside to look for the reel, and in a tackle box that he swears he never uses I find my daughters birthday pin (her birthday was in April and the pin had money on it but had come up missing a few weeks before)
If you were going to steal something are you going to put it out in plain sight? Hell no you are going to put it somewhere no one would ever look.
This is NOT the first time that things have come up missing when he's the only one besides me that has access.
I don't know what to do...I'm so confused and hurt.
I'm not sure if I should be hurt, pissed, ready to divorce him. To be quite honest I'm just plain confused...
I've been best friends with my BFF for 25+ years, she's my REAL LIFE jovi sister, we grew up on Jovi and attended our first and second Jovi shows together.
Her mother, sister, aunts, uncles, grandparents, etc. have ALWAYS welcomed me and my children and more recently my husband into the family with open arms.
I got a visit today from my 2nd mom (my BFF's mom) who is almost crying at the information she has to tell me.
We were over at the house a few weeks ago and were swimming etc. Shadow (my daughter) fell down outside and scraped her knee. She was yelling for her daddy and I asked my bff to go find him for me.
She found him in the garage over behind the stuff where her step-father keeps his fishing gear. (Which my husband admits to) She didn't think anything of it, until her step-dad noticed that one of his open faced reels was missing. (2+2=4 right?)
She came over and asked me about it, she *my 2nd mom* and my bff were terrified that I would be angry with them for telling me what they thought had happened.
No one wanted to say anything...just let it go. I'm glad they told me. Here's another part, I took her outside to look for the reel, and in a tackle box that he swears he never uses I find my daughters birthday pin (her birthday was in April and the pin had money on it but had come up missing a few weeks before)
If you were going to steal something are you going to put it out in plain sight? Hell no you are going to put it somewhere no one would ever look.
This is NOT the first time that things have come up missing when he's the only one besides me that has access.
I don't know what to do...I'm so confused and hurt.
