Post by fivefivegenie on Feb 26, 2011 0:10:45 GMT -4
Ok, so first my daughter posted that she wants to date a guitarist... ok, that's not bad, just makes me curious as to what's going thru her head.
But then...my "best friend" - the person that introduced me to Jovi, in fact way back when - posted something that really bugged me. She's the one that I *still*, despite everything, would drop everything for a la "Blood on Blood."
I don't know the situation, what's going on in her life today that made her post this, but it's so hypocrytical that it really ticked me off! She posted that she hates it when people treat her badly, or use her as a doormat, and aren't there for her, but then they expect her to be there for them.
That royally ticks me off because that's basically what she did to me just after high school. She blew me off for a guy. Even when he wasn't around, I couldn't get her to go anywhere or do anything for months on end because "He might call." in fact, I couldn't even get her to come to the hospital to see us when my first child was born & there had been complicatons, even though she was moving out of the country a few days later (while I was still in the hospital) with the guy despite the fact that she was 2 BLOCKS AWAY at one point. She never did see the baby. Then she ended up getting divorced & guess who was her best friend again?
Yet, what's the use of re-hashing it with her? Either I need to let it go...or let the friendship go.
Really depressing. I think it's time for some Jovi therapy. Anything but Blood on Blood, that is. Have a Nice Day will be a good start.
Sorry all, but I *really* needed to vent!
But then...my "best friend" - the person that introduced me to Jovi, in fact way back when - posted something that really bugged me. She's the one that I *still*, despite everything, would drop everything for a la "Blood on Blood."
I don't know the situation, what's going on in her life today that made her post this, but it's so hypocrytical that it really ticked me off! She posted that she hates it when people treat her badly, or use her as a doormat, and aren't there for her, but then they expect her to be there for them.
That royally ticks me off because that's basically what she did to me just after high school. She blew me off for a guy. Even when he wasn't around, I couldn't get her to go anywhere or do anything for months on end because "He might call." in fact, I couldn't even get her to come to the hospital to see us when my first child was born & there had been complicatons, even though she was moving out of the country a few days later (while I was still in the hospital) with the guy despite the fact that she was 2 BLOCKS AWAY at one point. She never did see the baby. Then she ended up getting divorced & guess who was her best friend again?
Yet, what's the use of re-hashing it with her? Either I need to let it go...or let the friendship go.
Really depressing. I think it's time for some Jovi therapy. Anything but Blood on Blood, that is. Have a Nice Day will be a good start.Sorry all, but I *really* needed to vent!