Is it wrong?

[runningfromlions]

I'm so sorry for this little rant but i really have no idea what to do and I don't know who to talk to about it . I'm in a bit of a situation haha.

I'm sure i'm not the only person who when in high school had a crush on one of their teachers. My crush was my RMPS teacher - he was stunning, really, really, really hot - and was only 24 at the time, so he's six years older than me.

Anyhoo I had a crush on him for my final two years of high school, but when I finished we completely lost contact and I never heard of him or saw him again.

Then last week I was back in my hometown visiting my mum and dad and I met him (and he's still as hot as he was in high school), we talked he was asking about what i'd been doing over the past three years all the usual stuff. But the point is he asked for my number and we talk all the time, and it's very flirty conversations and we've been out a few more times over the past week for a 'catch up' and are going out on Saturday night.

My problem is, is it wrong to date - well i'm assuming it's dating - one of your old teachers, because y'know he taught me from when i was 15 :S

I'm so confused and i don't know what to do and hate it . Any advise?

[Jonny's Gina™]

Well you're of age and out of school so in my opinion I don't see why not . just see where it goes maybe go slowly

[runningfromlions]

See that's what i thought orgionaly but my mum works at the school with him, and everyone remembers me as 'Mrs. Don's daughter' and they know I was in his class for three years, and they may find it strange he's dating an ex-pupil of his, even though we haven't been pupil/teacher in over three years :S and I don't think it would but I'd hate to cause problems for him at work if you know what i mean?

[Jonny's Gina™]

oh well did you talk to your mom about it? if you did what did she say?

[runningfromlions]

Not really mentioned it that much to her tbh, was just kinda like; I've spoke to Ross a few times and she had no idea who Ross was until I was like RMPS teacher....... then she understood

But I dono i'm guessing she'd be okay with it, she knew i had a crush on him in high school but I'm guessing she'd be pretty cool with it, should really talk to her. Just not sure how to bring up the whole; btw i might be kinda going on a date with one of your collueges from work who i used to have a crush on back in high school hope you don't mind lol.

[Jonny's Gina™]

maybe you should talk to your mom get her advise then go from there, to me though if you think you might cause him probs at work then maybe not but at the same time if you really like him I don't see anything wrong with it

[runningfromlions]

And thats my situation in a nutshell. I do really like him, he's always been someone i find really easy to talk to and can have a laugh with etc plus he's really smart and not just like the whole Cosmological Argurement, Socraties etc but like life smart as well. But I really would hate myself if I did even the slightest thing to harm his job in anyway. So basically i'm screwed :/

[Jonny's Gina™]

Just talk to your mom then maybe him too then decide i wouldn't say you're screwed not at all .